“A consenting, confident, satisfying sex life, in the absence guilt and shame.”
Although there are many sexual issues that are as pertinent to males AND females such as libido issues, shame about sex, porn addiction, arousal disorders, anorgasmia how these issues are viewed by the general public and the medical profession are often different for women.
Many of the myths around sex feed those different attitudes, the most common ones being :-
"Men are more sexual than women and have higher libidos. " This is simply not true; many men have low libidos and many women have high ones.
"Women lose interest in sex as they get older." Age and menopause can impact on libido, but it shouldn’t kill it off all together, female hormones get blamed for all kinds of things when in truth its usually more about not wanting the sex on offer because its just not satisfying.
"Women that have had lots of sexual experience and/ or partners are sluts". No!, they just have more experience and slut shaming is about controlling women, there are so many mixed messages about how women should behave sexually.
"Women don’t want sex." Yes, yes, they do!
Many women grow up being taught to fear sex, that sex is wrong, that they are there to please men and lots of other things that should have been left behind in the past a couple of centuries ago.
Yet women are built to have great sex, we are designed to experience pleasure. The clitoris is the only organ in the human body purely for pleasure, yet it’s still missing in sex education and biology classes. Women have been sexually repressed by culture, religion, the media.
So, is it any wonder that the female population have a 70% incidence of sexual issues and dysfunction in their lifetime?
Well it’s time for things to change !
Libido is effected by many things, Kaz takes a holistic approach to help you tap into your life force and get your libido back, or even find it if you have never really had one.
If sex causes pain, why would you want to do it? New pain always needs to be investigated by a doctor, if no cause is found or a cause of pain doesn't respond to treatment, then hypnosis might be the answer. Hypnosis has been proven in medical studies to reduce or eliminate pain during sex, it's also a great way to address emotional pain that can also interfere with sex.
Vaginismus is the clamping shut of the vaginal muscles preventing or causing painful penetration. It's very common but hardly talked about! Women are often given dilators to try and ease open the muscles (ouch!). Sexual freedom hypnosis has a unique hypnosis method (Yoni Directed Hypnosis) that has helped 100's of women become free of vaginismus and be able to have enjoyable sex.
Thought to be highly under reported and a source of shame to women experiencing it. Hyper arousal can be extremely life limiting. Sexual Freedom Hypnosis can be very effective in helping women get control of this condition.
Giving birth can have a very positive effect upon female sexuality. The opposite can also be true. Injury during birth, Post natal depression, changes in physical appearance and traumatic birth can all take their toll. Sexual Freedom Hypnosis can help resolve the trauma, address low mood and help a women love her new post birth body.
The inability to orgasm either with a partner or at anytime, can make a women feel under pressure and like a sexual failure. For many women the pressure to orgasm becomes a major block and the problem compounds. Sexual freedom Hypnosis can help women let go and get in touch with their arousal and body, let go of shame and guilt and help them to discover the joy of orgasmic bliss.